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General/Preliminary Information on Embryo Donation

  1. What is embryo donation? Through the use of in vitro fertilization (IVF), thousands of couples have been able to have children. After they have completed their family building through IVF many of these couples find themselves with remaining embryos in frozen storage. Now they must determine the destiny of those remaining embryos - often a difficult decision.

    Couples with remaining embryos may choose to donate them to another couple experiencing infertility. Embryo donation is a positive experience for the donors, adopters and embryos! For the donating couple it is a life-affirming way to resolve a challenging dilemma. For the adopting family it can be a long awaited opportunity to experience pregnancy, childbirth and parenting. For the embryos it is the chance to grow, be born and live in a loving family.

  2. How do we determine where we should store remaining embryos? Many clinics will freeze and store your embryos at their facility for an annual fee. Most families choose this option because they have not completed their family building. However, some families have difficulty determining the future for their remaining embryos; donation, destruction, research or leave them frozen. As a result, the number of remaining embryos continues to increase. Each year when a couple receives their annual storage fee invoice, they have another opportunity to face this difficult decision. There are several corporations that have been established specifically to store frozen embryos. But please heed this word of caution: Some centers that offer to store your embryos might require that you relinquish all control once the embryos are in their facility. In addition, certain centers may sell your embryos for profit. When you are making a decision regarding your embryos, it is important to carefully and completely research all of the facility's policies in order to ensure all options for your embryos remain in your control.

  3. What kind of factors influence whether a family is interested in donating their embryos? When a family begins their IVF procedures, they may be either unaware or unconcerned that a surplus of embryos will be created as "insurance" for additional attempts at pregnancy. When their family building using their embryos is completed and they have remaining embryos, they must determine what to do with them. The reactions can range from shock to frustration to guilt when they realize the magnitude of the situation facing them. These feelings can change their previous indifference at discarding the embryos to a sense of protection and concern for them instead.

    Couples with remaining embryos are familiar with the physical and emotional struggles of infertility. Couples interest in adopting embryos have often gone through their own cycles of IVF unsuccessfully. In fact, many of the families who have had success with embryo adoption have previously experienced IVF. Infertility is more common than many people know.

    The American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) has estimated the following sterility rates among women by age group:
    Age in Years = Risk of Childlessness (%)
    20-24 = 5.7%
    25-29 = 9.3%
    30-34 = 15.5%
    35-39 = 29.6%
    40-44 = 63.6%

    In the U.S. women are tending to postpone initial efforts of childbearing into their late 30s and early 40s. As seen in the chart above, success in childbearing, using her own eggs, decreases significantly in these older age brackets. This may contribute to unsuccessful IVF treatments.

    Donated frozen embryos may be more likely to produce pregnancy in the adopting mother since children have already been born from the same set of created embryos.

    When considering embryo donation families will find they do have a choice in how to donate their embryos. Some may prefer to donate completely anonymously (except for medical information). Some may wish to have input into the type of family who receives their embryos, but desire minimal contact with the family. Still others are committed to establishing various levels of regular communication with the adopting family.

    Agencies, clinics and attorneys will offer some variety of the donation plans mentioned above. It is important that you evaluate your options and choose a provider who will fulfill your donation requirements.

  4. How is embryo adoption different from embryo donation?

    Embryo donation and embryo adoption programs specifically differentiate themselves by the label of either donation, which includes both anonymous and known donations, or adoption.

    Anonymous Donation programs are generally managed by fertility clinics, which receive donated embryos to be given anonymously to whomever the clinic chooses. Known Donation programs give the donating family the option of choosing the receiving family and they can mutually determine the level of future interaction between families. Miracles Waiting, Inc. is an organization that uses profile listings on its website to allow donating and receiving families to find one another, establishing a context for known donations. Adoption programs regard embryo donation as equivalent to a traditional adoption proceeding and offer corresponding assistance and services.

    However, the clients of both donation and adoption programs use the terms in a different and more generic way. Typically, placing or donating parents tend to use the term 'donation', while receiving or adopting couples tend to use the term 'adoption'. The basis for this is largely psychological.

    Donation is used in the sense of 'giving a gift' and offers an emotional separation from the embryos that the phrase 'placing for adoption' does not. Yet for the family wanting to parent the children born from such a gift, the term 'adoption' makes more emotional sense. It is the term that both legally and socially explains the transfer of parental rights associated with traditional adoption. Adoption also helps to describe and explain to their child the way in which they became a family, since children are 'adopted' rather than 'donated'.

    Frequently the terms are used interchangeably like the words lawyer and attorney.

  5. Why would placing parents choose embryo adoption instead of donation?
    • Embryo adoption provides the same safeguards that the traditional adoption process offers.
    • The donating family knows that the family they have chosen to parent their child has been screened for a criminal history and child abuse record, as well as educated about how to parent an adopted child.
    • The donating parents have the peace of mind of having personally selected a family to raise their genetic child. They also have the opportunity to have contact with the adopting family to whatever extent both families are comfortable. The children, genetic siblings, would also have the opportunity to connect later on if they desired.

  6. What are the benefits of embryo donation through an agency? Embryo adoption agencies, unlike the typical donation program, offer families the same safeguards and education available in a traditional adoption. This includes a homestudy which is conducted for the adopting family and includes criminal screening and adoption education. They allow both the placing and adopting families to participate in the selection of each other. In an anonymous embryo donation, most often, a doctor in a clinic decides to whom embryos are given. An agency recognizes the importance of counseling for all parties involved, especially counseling to the adopting family on the best approaches to educating their child regarding his/her adoption.

    An agency already has in place a set of legal documents that can be customized to fit each embryo adoption situation. These legal documents are well organized and contain all of the special considerations for embryo adoption. Embryo adoption is not recognized as an adoption by law, but as an exchange of property. In a standard adoption, the child must be born prior to being adopted.

    The adoption agency will also help coordinate the transportation of embryos from the donating family's clinic to the adopting family's clinic in the safest possible way.

    An adoption agency will provide the families with post-adoption counseling assistance as well as provide a support network with other embryo donating and adopting families. They will assist in communication between the two families as determined by the families.

  7. What costs are involved with embryo adoption? Embryo adoption costs are primarily paid by the adopting family. The donating family should NOT expect to be reimbursed for any of the costs they have incurred for IVF or embryo storage.

    Agency Fee*
    *Addition travel expenses may be incurred for centralized programs.
    $2,500-$10,000 May or may not include legal fees, embryo shipping, matching services,
    counseling, additional medical screening
    Home Study/FamilyAssessment $1,000-$2,500 Costs vary by state
    Clinic Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET) $2,500-$5,000 Costs vary by clinic
    TOTAL $6,000-$17,500 Generally less expensive than domestic or international adoption

  8. Will offering embryos for adoption prevent waiting, available children from being adopted? No. If newborns were available at the same rate as embryos, many adopting families would most likely take the child already born, since there is no guarantee of a pregnancy with embryo adoption and donation. And yet, there are many families for whom the possibility of being able to get pregnant is a crucial factor in their decision to pursue embryo adoption over traditional adoption. It is also important to keep in mind that some families who are looking for newborns may not necessarily be open to adopting children over a certain age or sibling groups, while conversely, families ready to open their homes to a foster situation may not desire to give birth to babies.

  9. What is an anonymous embryo donation? An anonymous donation occurs when donors and recipients do not know one another's identities. No contact is made between the donor or the recipient, either now or in the future. Anonymous donation most often takes place through an IVF clinic, but may also take place through an adoption agency. Most clinics that have an embryo donation program provide very limited information to the recipients about the donors. Donors are rarely involved in the process of selecting recipients, but are sometimes permitted to set stipulations for eligibility to receive their donation. Of course medical information about the donated embryos is provided to the recipient.

  10. Are there limits regarding the acceptance of donated embryos? Healthy children have been born from embryos that had been frozen for more than 12 years. Most experienced embryo adoption agencies will not stipulate a maximize cryopreservation time limit. They generally will accept all embryo donations regardless of the genetic mother's age, length of storage, medical grading or stage of embryo development. All of these items will be disclosed to the potential adopting family as a part of the matching process.

  11. What will happen to my frozen embryos if I choose not to donate them to another family? Should you choose not to donate your embryos, the options are to destroy them in the process of medical research, allow them to thaw and die, or do nothing and keep them in storage until a later time.

    Not making a decision is much the same as making the decision to destroy the embryos. Frozen embryos do not have an indefinite shelf-life and will eventually die. Donating your embryos to another couple is a difficult decision. But helping another infertile couple build their family is a caring and compassionate option.

  12. How do we get started?

    Continue to look through our website to gain more information on embryo adoption/donation and to hear from other people who have been donors or recipients. The Personal Experiences section includes several testimonies of people's experiences with donating or adopting embryos. Our Videos inform about the frozen embryo situation and portray the decision-making process of donating and adopting families. There is also a list of linked Articles on embryo adoption. If you decide to donate your embryos or to adopt embryos, click on the Finding Help section. We have listed the fertility clinics, adoption agencies, and adoption attorneys for each state so that you have access to resources available in each step of the process. If you have any questions, feel free to Contact Us.

Criteria for Donated Embryos

  1. Can a family who only has one embryo in storage donate that one embryo to a recipient couple? Yes. Because embryo adoption programs typically work with embryos in varying numbers from more than one clinic, it is possible for a donating family with only one embryo, in conjunction with another donating family with more embryos, to be able to offer that embryo to a recipient couple. In the event that embryos from both families are transferred at the same time and a pregnancy results, a DNA test should be performed upon birth of the child to determine the genetic parents of the child.

  2. Are there families who would be interested in receiving embryos on which there is limited medical background and information? This type of situation can be analogized to the domestic adoption where the birthmother doesn 't know who the birthfather is, and yet the child is still adopted. There are families who are willing to work with a situation where there is limited information available on the embryos being offered.

  3. If we used an anonymous egg or sperm donor when we created our embryos, can we still place them for adoption? If the contract you signed with the donor does not specify that the eggs or sperm are for your personal reproductive use only, you can place the embryos with another family. FDA rules and regulations need to be followed. In addition, you will also need to provide any information you have about the donor (i.e. donor profile). Verification of the donor 's infectious disease screen results must be obtained from either the donor agency or your clinic.

  4. The doctor said our embryos are not good quality. Can we still give them to another family? Yes. Some programs have eligibility requirements for embryos, others do not. Be sure to research all your options.

  5. Does the age of the embryos (date frozen) affect our ability to place them for adoption?

    No, there have been no definitive studies proving how long embryos can stay frozen and remain viable. There have been successful pregnancies with embryos that have been frozen for more than ten years.

  6. Are there limits on the number of times embryos may be donated? It is in the best interests of the children involved that all of a family's embryos be placed with one adopting family in the hopes that one family will give birth to all the siblings from a group of embryos.

    Should the adopting family complete their family building without using all of the adopted embryos, the adopted embryos should be returned to the original donating family. It will be this family's decision whether to place the embryos with a second adopting family.

    When a clinic is managing the embryo donation and it is an anonymous, non-directed donation, the clinic will determine how the donated embryos are distributed to recipients. Embryos from one donor may be given to multiple recipients.

The Matching Process

  1. Can the donating family have input regarding who receives their embryos? The level of input will be determined by the fertility clinic or adoption agency through which they are being donated. Frequently donations made through a clinic are anonymous donations. The donor may be able to specify some parameters for the recipient couple. Some clinic programs will allow directed donations.

    A donor will generally experience a greater level of control through an agency. They can choose the family who will receive their embryos and determine the future level of contact they will have with the family should they successfully bear children from the donated embryos.

  2. If our donated embryos are matched with an adopting family, will we have legal responsibility for any children born to them? Currently embryo donors are not legally responsible for offspring from their embryos. The legal agreement is an exchange of property between the two parties. Once completed, the adopting family bears all responsibility for any children born from the donated embryos, and the donating family relinquishes all parental rights. An experienced attorney or agency retaining legal expertise should be a part of any embryo adoption agreement.

  3. Are the recipient/adopting families screened? In most donation programs the adopting couple is screened for infectious diseases and for general reproductive health. Some clinic programs will require psychological evalutions (their ability to parent). Adoption agencies will provide the most thorough evaluation of the adopting family, including a criminal background check. They will also provide the adopting family with training in how to be a successful as an adopting parent. The agency is also available to provide the adopting family with assistance in the future as the child matures.

  4. Could the children from embryo donation inadvertently meet their siblings and reproduce? This is a common question asked by embryo, sperm and egg donors. The risk is negligible according to published guidelines and basic statistics. If one couple donates cryopreserved embryos, the chance of accidentally meeting and mating with a sibling is extremely unlikely. Anonymously donating your embryos to someone in a different state will further minimize the risk. Donating your embryos in an open embryo adoption is the best alternative to virtually eliminate this risk. For further information visit the American Society of Reproductive Medicine website.

  5. How do donating families and adopting families find each other? Usually donating families and recipient/adopting families are matched through a clinic or agency. Sometimes donating families self-direct their donation to a couple they have chosen independent of an agency or clinic. There is now an online matching service where donating and recipient families register with their particular profile stipulations and then independently search the listings to find a potential match. Email messages are exchanged the parties determine if the match is final. The service does not match parties, provide legal services, clinic referrals or donor/recipient screening. All of these services must be secured independently.

  6. How are placing and adopting families matched?

    The matching process includes the following steps:

      1. Both donating and adopting parents provide the adoption agency or attorney with information about themselves and indicate the type of adopting/donating family they desire.

      2. Donating parents indicate their preferences regarding the age, income, post-birth work plans, religion, prior marriages, existing children in the family, and race of the adopting families as well as their desire for future contact.

      3. Assuming an adopting family matches these criteria, their introductory letter, biography, and photographs are sent to the donating parents for consideration and possible selection.

      4. If the adopting family is selected, then the donating parents' profile information (introductory letter, biography and photographs), and medical health history are sent to the adopting family for their consideration and possible selection.

    There are additional ways for donating and adopting parents to be matched without an attorney or agency. Some IVF clinics will facilitate the matching process, or matches sometimes come about through word of mouth or by searching the Internet. Miracles Waiting, Inc. maintains a website (www.MiraclesWaiting.org) where parents can post profiles as either donors or recipients. These profiles allow an interested party to find a profile that fits their criteria and make contact through email. When considering these options, keep in mind that an attorney or agency can be beneficial in mediating communication between the parties, to provide the safeguards that a traditional adoption offers, and to offer education and assistance throughout the process.

  7. Is it more important to match according to physical attributes or to other characteristics? Families who are receiving embryos typically want children that will look like their family (with similar heredity).

    The donating families are concerned with the physical appearance but are also interested in other characteristics that usually are similar to their own such as education, religion, if the mother will work or stay at home, the number of other children in the family, similar financial security, length of marriage, or age of the prospective parents.

  8. What are the most significant legal issues associated with embryo adoption? The most significant legal issue associated with embryo donation and adoption relates to, first, the unsettled nature of embryo adoption law, and second, the contractual agreements used to legally bind donor and recipient couples.

    First, both the donor and recipient couples should acknowledge that the law of embryo donation and adoption is unsettled. There are no federal or state laws specifically governing the adoption of embryos although some states do have laws generally related to embryo donation and/or assisted reproductive technology.

    Second, the embryo donation and adoption process involves adoption agreement and relinquishment forms, which are legal contracts between the donor and recipient couples. These forms formalize the genetic parents' relinquishment of their parental rights prior to the embryos being transferred to the receiving mother. Once transferred, the embryos belong to the adopting parents. Parties involved should also note that embryos have a special legal status that is yet to be clearly defined. While many courts are reluctant to classify embryos as property, they also do not characterize them as human beings. As a result, embryo adoption programs may differ in how they define embryos in their legal agreements. Some may refer to embryo donation as a transfer of property while others may incorporate traditional adoption language into their legal documents.

  9. What kind of information will we need to provide about ourselves and our embryos from another clinic? You will need to contact your fertility clinic and have them send you and your donation/ adoption organization the embryology reports and freezing and thawing protocols for the embryos, as well as infectious disease screens for the donating parents (or the egg/ sperm donor). If the embryos were created through gamete donation, you will need to submit a copy of the contract you had with your donor, and the information given to you when you selected your donor.

  10. If we place our embryos for adoption, will we be able to know if a pregnancy occurred for the receiving family? Yes. Each program operates differently, but there are programs which allow you to know if a pregnancy occurred and even receive information about the child after birth if you desire.

Transportation of Embryos

  1. Who handles the coordination of the embryos' travel?

    If you are working with a private embryo adoption provider, the agency or attorney should coordinate travel for the embryos between the two clinics. Otherwise, the donor will need to discuss with the fertility clinic what paperwork is required to have the embryos released and transferred to another clinic. The donor should also find out what the clinic uses to transport the embryos; often, clinics use glass ampoules or plastic straws that hold up to six embryos. They must be held in temperature-controlled containers in order to preserve them in a frozen state. The embryos can then be shipped overnight via air courier.

    In some cases, the recipient may be able to travel to the donors' clinic and have the embryos transferred without the shipping expenses. Recipients need to first find out how they can be become patients at the clinic and whether the transfer can be performed there.

  2. What if our clinic doesn't have a dry shipper? The agency or attorney with whom you are working should be able to coordinate the rental of an appropriate shipping container for you.

  3. How willing are clinics to cooperate with embryo adoption? Most fertility clinics have the best interest of their patients in mind and will guide them through their best options. While some clinics refuse to work with embryos from outside clinics, other clinics will provide the service at their patients' request. Some clinics are open to using an outside service to place their patients' unused embryos but will not refer families to receive embryos.

Fees and Requirements

  1. Does it cost anything for the donating parents to place embryos for adoption? Expenses related to placing your embryos for adoption are usually covered by the recipients. The adopting family is not responsible for any expenses you incurred in the creation and storage of your embryos.

  2. Does the adopting family help with any of the fees owed by the donating parents?

    Typically, adopting families do not pick up any costs that accrued prior to having been matched with a donating family. Adopting families do often reimburse donating families for any expenses incurred during or after they are matched. This includes storage and shipping fees, legal costs, and any fees associated with medical or psychological screening. These may be included in the overall program fee if done through an agency. Any sort of direct compensation for the embryos themselves is under the legal jurisdiction of each state, and interested parties should seek legal advice to determine the applicable laws in their states. In general, such payments are not recommended by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine or the American Medical Association on ethical grounds.

    Once donating and adopting families have selected one another, the embryos are shipped to the adopting family's clinic, where the adopting family then becomes responsible for storage costs incurred. Depending on how many embryos a donating family has, if an adopting family completes their family with embryos still remaining, there may be a chance that those remaining embryos would once again become the donating family's responsibility for storage fees and selection of another family.

  3. What are the current FDA requirements for blood tests? The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has published regulations regarding human tissue donation that effects embryo donation and adoption. On May 25, 2004, the FDA published final rules addressing donor testing/ screening and good tissue practice. The FDA subsequently issued an interim final rule on May 25, 2005, which amended certain sections of those regulations. For additional information on the rule, see the FDA's web site Question and Answer section at:

    Previously, the FDA rules exempted sexually intimate partners engaged in reproductive treatment, from infectious disease testing prior to the creation of their embryos, which were intended for the couple's own use. The interim final rule expanded this exemption, which now permits couples who were not originally screened for infectious disease to donate their cryopreserved embryos to other couples. The regulations do suggest that attempts to test these donor couples should be made before the embryos are transferred to the recipient, but, when testing is not possible, the recipient should at least be advised of the potential communicable disease risk. Given that FDA regulations may change, you should be sure to understand what screening and testing requirements are in effect at the time of your donation.

    When issuing the interim final rule, the FDA stated; "We are now adding a new exemption from screening and testing in Sec. 1271.90(a)(4) for cryo preserved embryos that, while originally exempt from the donor eligibility requirement because the donors were sexually intimate partners, are later intended for directed or anonymous donation. When possible, appropriate measures should be taken to screen and test the semen and acolyte donors before transfer of the embryo to a recipient. This change reflects the fact that sexually intimate partners may decide to donate their cryopreserved embryos long after their fertility treatments are completed. Because the embryos were intended for use in a sexually intimate relationship the donors would not have been required to be screened and tested for communicable disease agents at the time that oocytes and semen were recovered. The new provision recommends that appropriate measures be taken to screen and test the semen and oocyte donors before transfer of the embryo to the recipient, when possible.

    The current FDA mandated blood tests include:

      HIV 1 & 2

      HTLV I/II

      Hepatitis B Surface Antigen

      Hepatitis B Core Antibody (IgG/IgM)

      Hepatitis C Antibody

      RPR (Syphillis)

      CMV IgG/IgM

      Gonorrhea/Chlamydia Culture

      Blood Typing

      Rh Factor

  4. What counseling should be offered to the donor family as well as to the adoptive family? Counseling is an important component of the services that should be offered in an embryo adoption and, in fact, is specifically included in the American Society for Reproductive Medicine's (ASRM's) guidelines for donating embryos. The type of counseling services made available and offered in an embryo adoption situation should be similar to the counseling services offered for traditional adoptions. For example, local area donating families should be provided with counseling services at no charge. Counseling for local adopting families should be included in their program fees. Referrals should be made for families outside of the geographical area serviced by the agency, clinic, or attorney.

Embryo Adoption

Adopting Parents

General/Preliminary Information on Embryo Adoption

  1. How is embryo adoption different from embryo donation?

    Embryo donation and embryo adoption programs specifically differentiate themselves by the label of either donation, which includes both anonymous and known donations, or adoption.

    Anonymous donation programs are generally managed by fertility clinics, which receive donated embryos to be given anonymously to whomever the clinic chooses. Known Donation programs give the donating family the option of choosing the receiving family and they can mutually determine the level of future interaction between families. Miracles Waiting, Inc. is an organization that uses profile listings on its website to allow donating and receiving families to find one another, establishing a context for known donations. Adoption programs regard embryo donation as equivalent to a traditional adoption proceeding and offer corresponding assistance and services.

    However, the clients of both donation and adoption programs use the terms in a different and more generic way. Typically, placing or donating parents tend to use the term 'donation', while receiving or adopting couples tend to use the term 'adoption'. The basis for this is largely psychological.

    Donation is used in the sense of 'giving a gift' and offers an emotional separation from the embryos that the phrase 'placing for adoption' does not. Yet for the family wanting to parent the children born from such a gift, the term 'adoption' makes more emotional sense. It is the term that both legally and socially explains the transfer of parental rights associated with traditional adoption. Adoption also helps to describe and explain to their child the way in which they became a family, since children are 'adopted' rather than 'donated'.

    Frequently the terms are used interchangeably like the words lawyer and attorney.

  2. What questions should an adopting family ask when looking for a fertility clinic?

    • Is the clinic willing to accept embryos from another clinic for a frozen embryo transfer ("FET")?
    • How much does it cost for an FET, including necessary prescriptions?
    • Does the clinic have any testing or screening requirements? Are there any other conditions involved in accepting and transferring the embryos?
    • What paperwork is required by the clinic? How long will it take the clinic to process the paperwork?
    • What are the short-term and long-term storage fees at the clinic?

    Adoption families may have to educate a clinic about embryo adoption and/or donation.

  3. Why would placing parents choose embryo adoption instead of donation? Embryo adoption provides the same safeguards that the traditional adoption process offers. The placing family knows that the family they have chosen to parent their child has been screened for a criminal history and child abuse record, as well as educated about how to parent an adopted child. The placing parents have the peace of mind of having personally selected a family to raise their genetic child. They also have the opportunity to have contact with the adopting family to whatever extent both families are comfortable. The children, full genetic siblings, would also have the opportunity to connect later on if they desired.

    Couples with remaining embryos are familiar with the physical and emotional struggles of infertility. Couples interest in adopting embryos have often gone through their own cycles of IVF unsuccessfully. In fact, many of the families who have had success with embryo adoption have previously experienced IVF. Infertility is more common than many people know.

    The American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) has estimated the following sterility rates among women by age group:
    Age in Years = Risk of Childlessness (%)
    20-24 = 5.7%
    25-29 = 9.3%
    30-34 = 15.5%
    35-39 = 29.6%
    40-44 = 63.6%

    In the U.S. women are tending to postpone initial efforts of childbearing into their late 30s and early 40s. As seen in the chart above, success in childbearing, using her own eggs, decreases significantly in these older age brackets. This may contribute to unsuccessful IVF treatments.

    Donated frozen embryos may be more likely to produce pregnancy in the adopting mother since children have already been born from the same set of created embryos.

  4. Why would adopting parents choose embryo adoption instead of donation? The adopting family has a chance to have a relationship with their child's placing family. Whether they share pictures and letters, have telephone conversations or choose to meet the placing parents, the adopting family will know that they have access to information about their child's history, as well as a possible match for any future medical need, such as an organ donation or blood or bone marrow transplants. The agency is available to facilitate communication between the families. The agency will educate and work with the adoptive family about how to talk to their child(ren) about their unique conception and adoption-related issues.

  5. How is surrogacy different from embryo adoption and donation? In surrogacy, an agreement is made for embryos to be transferred into a woman's uterus, and she then carries the pregnancy for the benefit of the intended parents. The embryos may be genetically related to the intended parents or may be the result of egg and/or sperm donation. Compare that to embryo adoption and donation, where the adopting mother herself carries the child or children. The placing couple relinquishes their rights to any children born from the embryos prior to the implantation of those embryos in the adoptive mother. The child that the adopting mother carries is the child that she and the adopting father will parent.

  6. Have there been any reported psychological problems found in children born through embryo donation? Issues and concerns have yet to be identified and certainly there are no long-term studies available. Similar psychological issues associated with adopting domestically or internationally may arise with embryo adopted children. This is when working with an experienced adoption agency will help you understand the unique needs of an adopted child and help equip you to meet those needs. Additionally, a reputable agency will be available to you for future counseling as your children mature.

  7. How is embryo adoption different from traditional adoption on the issue of 'risk'? There are significant differences in age, marital status and maturity between mothers evaluating whether to give up their birth-children for adoption and parents considering whether to place or donate their embryos.

      1. In the case of traditional adoption, the birth-mother is frequently single; however, it is not uncommon for placing parents to have become divorced or for a single woman to choose to donate her remaining embryos.

      2. In traditional adoption, the mother is frequently very young. A woman placing her born child for adoption is very often placing her firstborn, is not experienced and therefore unaware of the demands of parenting, and may change her mind and choose to keep her baby for emotional reasons. She may be hopeful that by keeping the child, a marriage with the child's father may occur, or she may plan to rely on family and friends for support. Conversely, in an embryo adoption, the placing parents are typically older, are already raising at least one child and so understand the demands of parenting a child or children, and fully understand that they do not want to add to their family.

      3. Placing families often have the luxury of more time than a pregnant woman has in reaching a decision to place their embryos for adoption.

  8. Why would adopting parents choose embryo adoption instead of traditional adoption of a newborn? The most obvious difference between an embryo adoption and a traditional adoption is the pregnancy experience. Adoptive mothers are able to experience the joys (and burdens!) of pregnancy and labor. They also have the peace of mind of knowing their children received the appropriate prenatal care and were not exposed to alcohol or drugs during pregnancy. There are, of course, certain considerations involved in embryo adoption that are not present in traditional adoption. For instance, because more than one embryo is implanted during the transfer procedure, an adoptive couple might have twins or triplets.

  9. Is this really adoption? Under current law adoption only applies to the placement of a child after they are born. While adoption law is not applicable to the embryo donation/adoption process, embryo adoption agencies will apply the rigors of the adoption process. The adopting parents' relationship with the child(ren) is just as binding as a legal adoption. Experienced embryo adoption agencies will have legal documentation for both parties that have successfully been used by many matched families.

  10. Legally, what is the relationship between the adoptive parents and any child born following embryo donation? At the time of birth the adoptive couple is fully recognized as the legal parents to any children who are born. The mother who physically gives birth is recognized as the legal mother and the man to whom she is married at the time of pregnancy and birth is recognized as the legal father of the child(ren). These individuals are noted as the legal mother and legal father on the birth certificate(s).

  11. How do we get started?

    Continue to look through our website to gain more information on embryo adoption/donation and to hear from other people who have been donors or recipients. The Personal Experiences section includes several testimonies of people's experiences with donating or adopting embryos. Our Videos inform about the frozen embryo situation and portray the decision-making process of donating and adopting families. There is also a list of linked Articles on embryo adoption. If you decide to donate your embryos or to adopt embryos, click on the Finding Help section. We have listed the fertility clinics, adoption agencies, and adoption attorneys for each state so that you have access to resources available in each step of the process. If you have any questions, feel free to Contact Us.

Embryo Adoption Requirements

  1. May an adopting family be registered with a traditional adoption program AND work with an agency offering embryo adoption? Each adoption agency and embryo adoption program is different. An adoptive family should check with both the adoption agency and embryo adoption program with which they are working to determine if this is allowed.

  2. What are the basic requirements for an adopting family? The adopting mother must be able to carry a child to term. Her doctor will be asked to provide a letter stating that there are no contraindications to pregnancy. Additional eligibility requirements may be indicated by the placing family. The adopting family must also have completed an adoptive homestudy. This homestudy is the same study used to evaluate and educate adopting parents in traditional domestic adoptions.

  3. Why should an adoptive home assessment or homestudy be performed when embryo donation/ adoption is generally not recognized as a true adopting proceeding in the United States? The importance of the homestudy lies in its purpose to help couples have not only healthy children, but healthy families.

    An adoptive homestudy for the recipient couple ensures that the safeguards currently in place for traditional adoption also protect the child, the placing parents and the receiving parents in an embryo adoption situation.

    Despite the fact that the adoptive mother gives physical birth to a child from an embryo donation, that child is still an adopted child; he or she shares no genetic relation to the adoptive mother or father. When children are born into a family to whom they are not genetically related, they may have the same types of questions as those of children adopted through traditional means. The homestudy process is 20% screening and 80% education. It provides the adoptive family with an opportunity to learn about and anticipate these types of issues and questions. The homestudy also educates the parents of the best way to addresss and answer these questions with sensitivity to the needs of the child.

    The homestudy process benefits donating parents by assuring them that the adopting family:

    • was evaluated for any health issues that may affect their ability to care for and raise a child,
    • was screened for any criminal and child abuse issues,
    • was educated concerning the potential issues of parenting a non-genetically related child

  4. How can an adopting family find a local agency to conduct their homestudy? For most embryo adoption programs, a traditional domestic homestudy is all that is required. It is best to find a private licensed adoption agency to work with because most state agencies or social services departments do not perform pre-placement homestudies, and the ones who do most often will not provide a copy to an outside agency. You can find a list of agencies in your area in the Finding Help section of this website.

  5. May the homestudy be used for a traditional adoption if an adopting family determines that at some point they no longer wish to adopt embryos? With the completed homestudy, an adopting family is in the position to look at traditional adoption if they determine that they are finished with the embryo adoption program. This determination is different for each family. Set limits and move on to another program when those limits have been reached. Limits can be based on time, a determined number of transfers, money, or a combination of the above. If an adopting family makes several attempts at embryo adoption and is still not able to conceive, they may want to consider domestic or international adoption. An adopting family should discuss this option with their social worker while still in the homestudy process.

  6. What other stipulations may affect my ability to adopt embryos?

    Each adoption agency has various eligibility requirements for adopting parents. These include, but are not limited to:

    • An age limit for the adopting mother
    • Eligibility of couples who do not have an infertility diagnosis
    • Whether adoptive couples can use a Surrogate mother to carry their adopted embryos
    • Out-of-state embryo adoptions
    • Out-of-country embryo adoptions
    • Eligibility of single women

The Matching Process

  1. How do donating and adopting families find each other? Usually donating families and recipient/adopting families are matched through a clinic or agency. Sometimes donating families self-direct their donation to a couple they have chosen independent of an agency or clinic. There is now an online matching service where donating and recipient families register with their particular profile stipulations and then independently search the listings to find a potential match. Email messages are exchanged the parties determine if the match is final. The service does not match parties, provide legal services, clinic referrals or donor/recipient screening. All of these services must be secured independently.

  2. How are placing and adopting families matched?

    The matching process includes the following steps:

      1. Both donating and adopting parents provide the adoption agency or attorney with information about themselves and indicate the type of adopting/donating family they desire.

      2. Donating parents indicate their preferences regarding the age, income, post-birth work plans, religion, prior marriages, existing children in the family, and race of the adopting families as well as their desire for future contact.

      3. Assuming an adopting family matches these criteria, their introductory letter, biography, and photographs are sent to the donating parents for consideration and possible selection.

      4. If the adopting family is selected, then the donating parents' profile information (introductory letter, biography and photographs), and medical health history are sent to the adopting family for their consideration and possible selection.

    There are additional ways for donating and adopting parents to be matched without an attorney or agency. Some IVF clinics will facilitate the matching process, or matches sometimes come about through word of mouth or by searching the Internet. Miracles Waiting, Inc. maintains a website (www.MiraclesWaiting.org) where parents can post profiles as either donors or recipients. These profiles allow an interested party to find a profile that fits their criteria and make contact through email. When considering these options, keep in mind that an attorney or agency can be beneficial in mediating communication between the parties, to provide the safeguards that a traditional adoption offers, and to offer education and assistance throughout the process.

  3. What are the most significant legal issues associated with embryo adoption? The most significant legal issue associated with embryo donation and adoption relates to, first, the unsettled nature of embryo adoption law, and second, the contractual agreements used to legally bind donor and recipient couples.

    First, both the donor and recipient couples should acknowledge that the law of embryo donation and adoption is unsettled. There are no federal or state laws specifically governing the adoption of embryos although some states do have laws generally related to embryo donation and or assisted reproductive technology.

    Second, the embryo donation and adoption process involves adoption and agreement and relinquishment forms, which are legal contracts between the donor and recipient couples. These forms formalize the genetic parental relinquishment of their parental rights prior to the embryo being transferred to the receiving mother. Once transferred, the embryos belong to the adopting parents. Parties involved should also note that embryos have a special legal status that is yet to be clearly defined. While many courts are reluctant to classify embryos as property, they also do not characterize them as human beings. As a result, embryo adoption programs may differ in how they define embryos in their legal agreements. Some may refer to embryo donation as a transfer of property while others may incorporate traditional adoption language into their legal documents.

  4. Does embryo adoption have to be open? Open adoption encompasses a wide spectrum of contact. There is usually no requirement that families meet, exchange last names or other identifying information, but at a minimum, each family will select each other through the presentation of an introductory letter, biography, and small selection of photographs that they each have personally prepared. All such adoptions are considered open. Whether a family wants more contact (via e-mail, telephone, photographs, and letters, sent either directly or through an adoption agency, attorney, or other intermediary) or less contact, families with similar levels of desired contact are able to be matched with one another.

  5. What type of information will we receive about the donating parents and their embryos? You will receive a medical health history, a family profile including information about the parents of the embryos and possibly pictures. Your doctor will receive the embryology reports, freezing and thawing protocols and all infectious disease screening results.

    If the embryos were created with an egg and/ or sperm donor, you will receive as much information as possible on the donor(s).

  6. What is involved after a match is made? In the embryo adoption process, using an experienced agency, the agency will have requested the adopting family to complete an adoption home study. The adopting family will have determined if their clinic of choise will accept embryos from another clinic and if they are willing to perform a frozen embryo transfer (FET) using those embryos. The agency will help them with any testing or screening procedures required of them or the donating family. The agency will coordinate the legal contracts. The agency will coordinate the physical transfer of the embryos from one clinic to another.

  7. What is the risk that the donating parents might change their minds? There is no more risk than with any legal contract. The donating family contractually transfers their ownership rights by signing a relinquishment prior to the embryos being shipped to the adopting family's clinic. The contract agreement and relinquishment forms are legally binding between the two families. Once the embryo have been transferred, the donating parents have no legal claim to any resultant children.

  8. Could the children from the embryo donation inadvertently meet their siblings and reproduce? This is a common question asked by embryo, sperm and egg donors. The risk is negligible according to published guidelines and basic statistics. If one couple donates cryopreserved embryos, the chance of accidentally meeting and mating with a sibling is extremely unlikely. Anonymously donating your embryos to someone in a different state will further minimize the risk. Donating your embryos in an open embryo adoption is the best alternative to virtually eliminate this risk. For further information visit the American Society of Reproductive Medicine website.

Embryo Adoption Fees

  1. Is embryo adoption expensive? Embryo adoption is a low-cost adoption alternative when compared to domestic and international adoption, repeated IVF cyles and the cost of donor eggs. The embryo donor does not receive payment for their embryos. The most exciting aspect of embryo adoption is that you have the opportunity to give birth to your adopted child! The adoption of foster-care children is generally the least expensive form of adoption.

  2. What costs are involved with embryo adoption? Embryo adoption costs are primarily paid by the adopting family. The donating family should NOT expect to be reimbursed for any of the costs they have incurred for IVF or embryo storage.

    Agency Fee*
    *Addition travel expenses may be incurred for centralized programs.
    $2,500-$10,000 May or may not include legal fees, embryo shipping, matching services,
    counseling, additional medical screening
    Home Study/FamilyAssessment $1,000-$2,500 Costs vary by state
    Clinic Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET) $2,500-$5,000 Costs vary by clinic
    TOTAL $6,000-$17,500 Generally less expensive than domestic or international adoption

  3. What does an embryo adoption program fee typically cover? An embryo program's fees typically cover the completion of a homestudy for families who need one, matching of the adopting family with a donating family, maintenance of files, facilitation of communication between donating and adopting families, preparation of contracts, relinquishments and other legal paperwork, counseling for both sides, coordination of communication between clinics and doctors to ensure that requirements are met for the transfer of the embryos between states, and management and direction of shipping of the embryos. Medical and incidental expenses are generally not included.

  4. Does the program fee include medical expenses? This depends on the program you are working with. If medical expenses are included in the fee, generally you will need to work with a specified fertility clinic.

    If medical expenses are not included, adopting parents are able to choose their fertility clinic and doctor, and need to pay the clinic to thaw and transfer the embryos as well as any other associated medical costs connected with the transfer.

    When choosing a fertility clinic, be sure to compare like services included in various quotes and the costs of subsequent transfers and embryo storage.

  5. What additional out-of-pocket expenses can an adopting family expect? Costs which may not be covered by an embryo adoption program include the rental of a dry shipper for embryo's travel and additional lab tests for a donating family.

  6. Does the adopting family help with any of the fees owed by the donating parents?

    Typically, adopting families do not pick up any costs that accrued prior to having been matched with a donating family. Adopting families do often reimburse donating families for any expenses incurred during or after they are matched. This includes storage and shipping fees, legal costs, and any fees associated with medical or psychological screening. These may be included in the overall program fee if done through an agency. Any sort of direct compensation for the embryos themselves is under the legal jurisdiction of each state, and interested parties should seek legal advice to determine the applicable laws in their states. In general, such payments are not recommended by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine or the American Medical Association on ethical grounds.

    Once donating and adopting families have selected one another, the embryos are shipped to the adopting family's clinic, where the adopting family then becomes responsible for storage costs incurred. Depending on how many embryos a donating family has, if an adopting family completes their family with embryos still remaining, there may be a chance that those remaining embryos would once again become the donating family's responsibility for storage fees and selection of another family.

Transfer of Embryos

  1. What if our clinic doesn't have a dry shipper? The agency or attorney with whom you are working should be able to coordinate the rental of an appropriate shipping container for you.

  2. Who handles the coordination of the embryos' travel?

    If you are working with a private embryo adoption provider, the agency or attorney should coordinate travel for the embryos between the two clinics. Otherwise, the donor will need to discuss with the fertility clinic what paperwork is required to have the embryos released and transferred to another clinic. The donor should also find out what the clinic uses to transport the embryos; often, clinics use glass ampoules or plastic straws that hold up to six embryos. They must be held in temperature-controlled containers in order to preserve them in a frozen state. The embryos can then be shipped overnight via air courier.

    In some cases, the recipient may be able to travel to the donors' clinic and have the embryos transferred without the shipping expenses. Recipients need to first find out how they can be become patients at the clinic and whether the transfer can be performed there.

  3. What questions should an adopting family ask when looking for a fertility clinic? Is the clinic willing to accept embryos from another clinic for a frozen embryo transfer (FET)? How much does it cost for an FET, including necessary medications? Does the clinic have any testing or screening requirements? Are there any other conditions involved in accepting and transferring the embryos? What paperwork is required by the clinic? How long will it take the clinic to process the paperwork? What are the short-term and long-term storage fees at the clinic? Do they store embryos on-site or off-site? If off-site what additional fees or procedures must be followed in order to have the embryos at the clinic for FETs?

    Adoption families may find that they have to educate a clinic about embryo donation and adoption.

  4. A local clinic has agreed to receive frozen storage embryos from other clinics, however, they insist that the donating family follow FDA regulations regarding blood work. What does this mean?

    Current ASRM/FDA recommended blood tests include: HIV I & II, HTLV I & II, Hepatitis B surface antigen, Hepatitis B Core Antibody (IgG/IgM), Hepatitis C Antibody, RPR (Syphilis), CMV IgG/IgM, Gonorrhea/Chlamydia culture, Blood Typing, and Rh factor.

    The FDA requires that parents who create embryos on or after May 25, 2005 must have their blood screened twice for infectious diseases. The first screen is done at the time of collection/creation and the second screen must be done at least six months later. This is to ensure that no infectious diseases were contracted during the month or two preceding the collection, which would not have shown up on the first screen.

    Parents who created embryos before May 25, 2005 are recommended to have this second screening done, but there is no FDA requirement. However, most clinics who agree to accept embryos from other clinics will require a second screening, even if they embryos were created far before May 25, 2005. If an egg or sperm donor was used in the creation of the embryos before May 25, 2005, the original screening results are sufficient. It is not necessary to locate him or her for additional blood testing.

    If the embryos were created prior to May 25, 2005, and the donating parents are not able or willing to complete additional blood testing, a waiver can be signed by the adoptive parents stating that they are aware of the lack of testing and choose to accept any risks.

    Fees for the screens are covered by the adopting parents, although donating parents may have to pay initially and then be reimbursed.

    Some clinics may also require some tests or screens for the recipients. This is contingent on what tests were already performed, the standard practices of the doctor and clinic, and any specific risk factors associated with the patient, such as age. Adopting parents should consult with their doctor to find out what testing needs to be done.

    In addition, adopting parents may be required to meet with a psychologist to discuss their feelings towards embryo donation/adoption and whether they are fully aware of what it will entail to enter such an agreement. Clinics that do not require counseling may require some type of consultation to ensure that both parents have been informed and give their consent.

  5. What is involved in Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET)?

    The FET procedure is the same whether the patient is using her own or donated embryos. The process can be done during an unmedicated cycle, but medicated cycles are more common as they provide more control in the timing of the transfer. Sometimes, a mock cycle is done to test the effects of the medicine on the body. If this is successful, the cycle is done again and the embryos are transferred. Potential medications used in the cycle include: antibiotics, oral contraceptives, prenatal vitamins/calcium supplements, pituitary suppressors, baby aspirin, estrogen supplements, and progesterone.

  6. What is the success rate for thawing and viability of embryos? The success rate for thawing frozen embryos will vary by clinic - from 50 - 75%. Each clinic reports on their own statistics to the U.S. Center for Disease Control (CDC). It is advisable to discuss these statistics (found at CDC Fertility Clinic Statistics) with any clinic being considered for the FET process.

  7. How many embryos should an adopting family transfer per cycle? Adopting families should limit the number of embryos transferred to the number that they are willing to carry to term in the event that all the embryos attach. Some embryo adoption programs specifically require their adopting families to agree to transfer all thawed and viable embryos and to not selectively reduce the number of embryos that have begun developing. Due to the high-risk nature of a multiple pregnancy, most doctors recommend limiting the number of embryos transferred to no more than three embryos at a time. This is something adopting families should discuss with their doctor prior to their scheduled embryo transfer.

  8. What is the likelihood of a multiple pregnancy with frozen embryo transfer? Multiple births are less common with frozen embryo cycles than with "fresh" embryo transfers. But this in no way guarantees that an adopting family will not have multiples. Adopting families should consult the Society for Reproductive Technology, ASRM, the Center for Disease Control, and their fertility clinic for statistics.

  9. Are there any risks to pregnancy inherent in using donated embryos for the Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET)?

    A pregnancy using donated embryos does not involve any special or increased factors of risk. It is important to consider the age and any medical conditions of the donating parents and to discuss this and all other pertinent details with the obstetrician.

    A recent study published in the journal Fertility and Sterility actually found that the pregnancy success rate for women adopting embryos is equal to or greater than the success rate for women using their own embryos in IVF treatments. Women who use their own embryos will have a 32% chance of delivering to term, whereas women using adopted frozen embryos will have a 35% chance of delivering to term.

Remaining Adopted Embryos

  1. What if an adoptive family gets pregnant and there are still embryos remaining? All donated embryos will be released to the adoptive parents via a relinquishment agreement. The agreement will specify a period of time in which they must thaw and transfer as many embryos as are needed. If more time is needed, another relinquishment will be requested.

    If the adopting parents have remaining embryos that they will not be transferring at a later time, the embryos should be returned to the original donating family. The original family may then determine if the embryos may be adopted by another family.

  2. What if pregnancy is not achieved after using all of a donating family's embryos? If a match between adopting and placing families does not result in a pregnancy after thawing and/or transferring all of their embryos, another match can usually be facilitated with another donating family. This would normally include a nominal fee to cover counseling for the next couple, new paperwork and embryo travel. However, you should check with the program you are considering, as each embryo adoption program is different.

Embryo Adoption

Medical

General Information on Embryo Donation/Adoption

  1. How is embryo adoption different from embryo donation? With embryo donation, the adopting family does not have a homestudy prepared, the families are usually unknown to one another and have no participation in the selection process, and there is typically no contact between the families, even through an intermediary. Embryo adoption as provided by adoption agencies and/or attorneys goes beyond the typical donation program by offering the same safeguards and education available as that in a traditional adoption. A homestudy is conducted for the adopting family and includes screening and education. Both the donating and adopting families participate in the selection of each other, as compared to embryo donation, where most often, a doctor in a clinic decides to whom embryos are given. An embryo adoption program further recognizes the importance of counseling for all parties involved.

  2. What are the most significant legal issues associated with embryo adoption? The most significant legal issue associated with embryo donation and adoption relates to, first, the unsettled nature of embryo adoption law, and second, the contractual agreements used to legally bind donor and recipient couples.

    First, both the donor and recipient couples should acknowledge that the law of embryo donation and adoption is unsettled. There are no federal or state laws specifically governing the adoption of embryos although some states do have laws generally related to embryo donation and/or assisted reproductive technology.

    Second, the embryo donation and adoption process involves adoption agreement and relinquishment forms, which are legal contracts between the donor and recipient couples. These forms formalize the genetic parental relinquishment of their parental rights prior to the embryo being transferred to the receiving mother. Once transferred, the embryos belong to the adopting parents. Parties involved should also note that embryos have a special legal status that is yet to be clearly defined. While many courts are reluctant to classify embryos as property, they also do not characterize them as human beings. As a result, embryo adoption programs may differ in how they define embryos in their legal agreements. Some may refer to embryo donation as a transfer of property while others may incorporate traditional adoption language into their legal documents.

  3. What are the benefits of embryo adoption to the donating family? It relieves the couple of the psychological burden of having frozen embryos that they in storage.

    They are honoring their own children who were born through the IVF process by allowing embryo siblings a chance at life.

    They experience the satisfaction of providing another infertile couple the chance to build their family.

    There is greater assurance that the adopting family has been well screened and evaluated for their ability to become successful in raising adopted children.

Medical Information and Requirements

  1. What type of patient medical information will our clinic receive about the donating parents and their embryos? Your clinic will receive:
    • Infectious disease screening results (an FDA requirement)
    • embryology reports
    • embryo freezing and thawing protocols

    It is likely that the program your patients are working with will be able to contact the donating parents and their clinic to obtain additional information as necessary.

  2. What are the current FDA requirements for blood tests?

    The U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has published regulations regarding human tissue donation that effects embryo donation and adoption. On May 25, 2004, the FDA published final rules addressing donor testing/ screening and good tissue practice. The FDA subsequently issued an interim final rule on May 25, 2005, which amended certain sections of those regulations. For additional information on the rule, see the FDA's web site Question and Answer section at:
    http://www.fda.gov/BiologicsBloodVaccines/SafetyAvailability/TissueSafety/ucm095440.htm

    Previously, the FDA rules exempted sexually intimate partners engaged in reproductive treatment, from infectious disease testing prior to the creation of their embryos, which were intended for the couple's own use. The interim final rule expanded this exemption, which now permits couples who were not originally screened for infectious disease to donate their cryopreserved embryos to other couples. The regulations do suggest that attempts to test these donor couples should be made before the embryos are transferred to the recipient, but, when testing is not possible, the recipient should at least be advised of the potential communicable disease risk. Given that FDA regulations may change, you should be sure to understand what screening and testing requirements are in effect at the time of your donation.

    When issuing the interim final rule, the FDA stated, "We are now adding a new exemption from screening and testing in Sec. 1271.90(a)(4) for cryo preserved embryos that, while originally exempt from the donor eligibility requirement because the donors were sexually intimate partners, are later intended for directed or anonymous donation. When possible, appropriate measures should be taken to screen and test the semen and acolyte donors before transfer of the embryo to a recipient. This change reflects the fact that sexually intimate partners may decide to donate their cryopreserved embryos long after their fertility treatments are completed. Because the embryos were intended for use in a sexually intimate relationship the donors would not have been required to be screened and tested for communicable disease agents at the time that oocytes and semen were recovered. The new provision recommends that appropriate measures be taken to screen and test the semen and oocyte donors before transfer of the embryo to the recipient, when possible.

    The current FDA mandated blood tests include:

    • HIV 1 and 2
    • HTLV I/II
    • Hepatitis B surface antigen
    • Hepatitis B Core Antibody (IgG/IgM)
    • Hepatitis C Antibody
    • RPR (Syphilis)
    • CMV IgG/IgM
    • Gonorrhea/Chlamydia culture
    • Blood Typing
    • Rh factor

  3. What counseling should be offered to the donating and adopting families? Counseling is an important component of the services that should be offered in an embryo adoption and, in fact, is specifically included in the ASRM's guidelines for donating embryos. Drawing upon the traditional model of adoption, the type of counseling services made available and offered in an embryo adoption situation should be similar. For example, local area donating families should be provided with counseling services at no charge. Counseling for local adopting families should be included in their program fees. Referrals should be made for families outside of the geographical area serviced by the agency, clinic, or attorney.

Storage and Transportation of Embryos

  1. Who handles the coordination of the embryos' travel? It is usually the responsibility of the patient's private embryo adoption provider, agency or attorney to coordinate the embryo's travel between the placing and adopting clinics.

  2. What if we don't have a dry shipper? The agency or attorney with whom your patients are working should be able to coordinate the rental of an appropriate shipping container for you.

  3. What are the costs to the donating parents? There are no fees for the donating parents to participate in the program. There may be costs during the process if any additional blood work is required per FDA guidelines, depending on where the embryos are going and what types of tests the donating family has had, but the adopting family may cover these costs.

  4. Does the adopting family help with any of the fees owed by the donating parents? Typically, adopting families do not pick up any costs prior to having been matched with a donating family. Adopting families do often reimburse donating families for any expenses incurred during or after they are matched. This includes storage and shipping fees, legal costs and any fees associated with medical or psychological screening. These may be included in the overall program fee if done through an experienced agency. Any sort of direct compensation for the embryos themselves is under the legal jurisdiction of each state, and interested partieis should seeks legal advice to determine the applicable laws in their states. In general, such payments are not recommended by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine or the American Medical Association on ethical grounds.

    Once donating and adopting families have selected one another, the embryos are shipped to the adopting family's clinic, where the adopting family then becomes responsible for storage costs incurred. Depending on how many embryos a donating family has, if an adopting family completes their family with embryos still remaining, there may be a chance that those remaining embryos would once again become the donating family's responsibility for storage fees and selection of another family.

Adopted Embryo Protocols

  1. Is there a limit on the length of time our patients have to use their adopted embryos? Time limits are usually incorporated into the legal contract language for the transfer of embryos from one party to another.

  2. If there are still adopted embryos remaining after our patients are done, what do we do? In an embryo adoption program it is customary for the adopting family to return any embryos they do not plan to use for their own family building to the original donating family. The original family can they determine and choose a second adopting family for their embryos.

Embryo Adoption

Legal

Legal Issues and Precedence

  1. Is there legal precedence for the adoption or donation of frozen embryos? Many adoption agencies which offer embryo adoption utilize the same procedures and similar forms to those used in traditional adoption.

  2. What are the most significant legal issues associated with embryo adoption? The most significant legal issue associated with embryo donation and adoption relate to, first, the unsettled nature of embryo adoption law, and second, the contractual agreements used to legally bind donor and recipient couples.

    First, both the donor and recipient couples should acknowledge that the law of embryo donation and adoption is unsettled. There are no federal or state laws specifically governing the adoption of embryos although some states do have laws generally related to embryo donation and or assisted reproductive technology.

    Second, the embryo donation and adoption process involves adoption and agreement and relinquishment forms, which are legal contracts between the donor and recipient couples. These forms formalize the genetic parental relinquishment of their parental rights prior to the embryo being transferred to the receiving mother. Once transferred, the embryos belong to the adopting parents. Parties involved should also note that embryos have a special legal status that is yet to be clearly defined. While many courts are reluctant to classify embryos as property, they also do not characterize them as human beings. As a result, embryo adoption programs may differ in how they define embryos in their legal agreements. Some may refer to embryo donation as a transfer of property while others may incorporate traditional adoption language into their legal documents.

  3. Which states currently have laws that affect embryo adoption or donation? Note: the following information provided in this section is current only as of April 1, 2006. It is not intended to be a complete or comprehensive statement of the law in this area. It should therefore, in no way, shape, or manner, be construed or interpreted as providing legal advice. You are advised to conduct your own independent research as to the status of law on this subject.

    While no states have laws which specifically address embryo adoption or donation there are several states with laws which are related to or directly affect embryo donation and adoption. The following provides examples:

    • California: California Health & Safety Code §125315 provides that doctors must inform in-vitro fertilizations (IVF patients) of embryo disposition options, including donating to another couple; written consent is required for any such donation. California Penal Code §367g imposes criminal penalties of up to 5 years imprisonment and/or a $50,000 fine upon anyone who implants embryos in anyone other than the provider of those embryos without the provider's and recipient's written consents.

    • Louisiana: Louisiana Revised Statutes §9:123 unequivocally provides that an embryo is a juridical person, and under §9:131, any disputes concerning the embryo must be resolved in the embryo's best interest. Section 9:127 imposes a duty of responsibility for the safekeeping of any embryo on the physician or medical facility causing the fertilization of such embryo, while §9:126 appoints the in vitro fertilization doctor as a temporary guardian of the embryo in certain situations until such time as adoptive implantation can be performed. Section 9:129 prohibits the intentional destruction of any viable embryo. Under §130, adoption occurs only when both parents execute a notarized writing to document the donation of embryos and whenn a live birth occurs. That section also prohibits the donating couple from receiving compensation in exchange for renouncing their parental birth rights.

    • Oklahoma: Under §556 of Title 10 of the Oklahoma Statutes, written consent of both donating and recipient couples is required for embryo donation. The doctor who is to perform the transfer must file those consents with a court having adoption jurisdiction in the state. Section 1-730 of Title 63 of the Oklahoma Statutes defines "unborn child" to mean the unborn offspring of human beings from the moment of conception through pregnancy and until live birth and specifically includes "embryo".

    • Texas: Under §160.704, the consent of a married woman to an ART procedure must be in record signed by the woman and her husband, with embryo donation being included within the definition of Assisted Reproduction Technology (ART) under §160.102. Clarifying this point further, §160.702 provides that a donor is not considered the parent of a child conceived through assisted reproduction.

    • Florida: Florida statute states:

      742.14: The donation of eggs, sperm or preembryos

        The donor of any egg, sperm, or preembryo, other than the commissioning couple or a father who has executed a preplanned adoption agreement under s. 63.212, shall relinquish all maternal or paternal rights and obligations with respect to the donation or the resulting children. Only reasonable compensation directly related to the donation of eggs, sperm, and preembryos shall be permitted.

      742.11: Presumed status of child conceived by means of artificial or in vitro insemination or donated eggs or preembryos

        Except in the case of gestational surrogacy, any child born within wedlock who has been conceived by the means of artificial or in vitro insemination is irrebuttably presumed to be the child of the husband and wife, provided that both husband and wife have consented in writing to the artificial or in vitro insemination.

        Except in the case of gestational surrogacy, any child born within wedlock who has been conceived by means of donated eggs or preembryos shall be irrebuttably presumed to be the child of the recipient gestating woman and her husband, provided that both parties have consented in writing to the use of donated eggs or preembryos.

    • If a state's laws are silent on the issue of embryo adoption, are there any steps that can be taken to protect the recipient family's parental rights? Most states recognize the birth parents as the legal parents. In embryo adoption/donation, the recipient couple's names are entered on the birth certificate and a court of law would most likely recognize them as the legal parents. Some families have opted to seek an order of parentage from the court while the adoptive mother is pregnant with the child to settle the issue prior to the child's birth.

    • Is there a risk of commercialization of life through the adoption of embryos? There is always the risk of abuse in any process. Therefore, it is imperative that embryos be treated with the respect they deserve and, in order to discourage program participation based on profit incentives, that fees remain low. Embryo adoption programs must be operated with ethical and professional integrity.

Roles of Attorneys/Agencies in Embryo Adoption Process

  1. What roles may an agency or attorney fulfill in the embryo adoption/donation process?
    • Phase One:The process starts with an initial inquiry from a family either desiring to place their embryos for adoption or to adopt embryos.

    Agency/ Attorney Roles: Staff should be in place who can answer the resulting questions and prepare and mail program information packets and applications. When applications are received, they should be reviewed and approved by an assigned adoption social worker who reads the home assessment (in the case of an adoptive family), interviews the client to discuss matching criteria and address and resolve any issues concerning the placement or adoption of the embryos prior to the family being approved for participation in the program.

    • Phase Two: Both the donating and adopting families establish their criteria for a successful match which will lead to an embryo placement and adoption. A matching process initiates.

    Agency/ Attorney Roles: Once a successful match has been made, each set of parents drafts and signs contracts; embryos are shipped to the adopting family's clinic, and the adopting family is then able to schedule their frozen embryo transfer (FET). Depending on the form and frequency of any on-going contact between the families, an agency or attorney may need to continue to act as intermediary for such contact. There is also the possibility that additional matches and contracts will need to be performed if an adopting family does not use all of the donating family's embryos.

  2. Why should an adoptive home assessment or homestudy be performed when embryo donation/adoption is generally not recognized as a true adoption proceeding in the United States? The importance of the homestudy lies in its purpose to help couples have not only healthy children, but healthy families.

    An adoptive homestudy for the recipient couple ensures that the safeguards currently in place for traditional adoption also protect the child, the placing parents and the receiving parents in an embryo adoption situation.

    Despite the fact that the adoptive mother gives physical birth to a child from an embryo donation, that child is still an adopted child; he or she shares no genetic relation to the adoptive mother or father. When children are born into a family to whom they are not genetically related, they will have the same types of questions as those of children adopted through traditional means. The homestudy process is 20% screening and 80% education. It provides the adoptive family with an opportunity, to learn about and anticipate these types of issues and questions. The homestudy also educates the parents in the best way to address and answer these questions with sensitivity to the needs of the child.

    Since the homestudy process provides the donating parents with assurance about their embryos' prospective parents, they are also benefited. This assurance includes:

    • the adopting family has been evaluated for any health issues that may affect their ability to care for and raise a child,

    • has been screened for any criminal and child abuse issues,

    • has been educated concerning the potential issues of parenting a non-genetically related child

  3. How many donation/ adoptions occur nationwide each year? There are no national statistics regarding the number of embryo donations/adoptions that occur each year. Each program can vary widely with some programs performing as few as 1 adoption or donation per year, while others may complete as many as 40 placements a year.

  4. What legal documents are used to transfer the embryos from the donating parents to the adoptive parents? Necessary legal documents include:

    • A document relinquishing the genetic parents' rights and responsibilities to the embryos and any child or children born from those embryos

    • A document allowing the recipients to assume all parental rights and responsibilities for the embryos and any child or children born from them.

  5. At what point is an embryo adoption considered to be finalized? Although there is little or no precedence on this issue, the language of the written agreement effecting the transfer of ownership in the embryos may specify that the adoption is deemed to have occurred at the point of thawing and implantation of the embryos into the adoptive mother's womb.

Logistical Concerns

  1. If we wanted to start a program, what is the typical fee schedule? As in any adoption program, the fees charged will vary depending on the type of organization offering the service, the geographical area being serviced, and the motivations of the program founders. Typically, the fees for embryo adoption are less than those for a traditional adoption.

  2. What average time commitment should an agency or attorney expect to invest with each placement? A typical time investment can range from 100 to 200 hours per family choosing to adopt or place embryos in adoption or donation program. The time spent can be broken down into the following types of activities:

    • processing the application

    • counseling and matching the families

    • preparing the documents for transfer of legal ownership

    • coordinating the medical documentations

    • facilitating shipment of the embryo

    This list is by no means exhaustive and the time required to place embryos may vary greatly depending on the needs and desires of each individual family.

  3. Are there any tax implications of embryo donation and adoption? There is some support for the application of the adoption tax credit to embryo adoption. Some families have applied for the tax credit with regard to the fees paid to their agency for the adoptive home assessment, educational component, and other adoption agency or attorney expenses directly relating to the adoption of the embryos. These may be families who have participated in an embryo adoption program and who have given birth to a child as a result.

    This information is not intended to be a complete or comprehensive statement of the law in this area. It should therefore, in no way, shape, or manner, be construed or interpreted as providing legal advice. You are advised to conduct your own independent research as to the applicability of the adoption tax credit to embryo adoption or to seek the advice of a tax professional, Certified Public Accountant, or financial adviser.

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